To my friend.
I know that right now you are in a pit of grief. You are at the heart of loss. But I promise on the other side of this loss is blessing you have been waiting on. You will find a happiness again. You will have a day when the sun is shining and the dogs are sleeping in a beam of light and you are drinking an iced coffee (or vodka cran) and will be thankful. Your heart will swell with gratitude for being alive and being free.
All that being said. Right now, BE SELFISH. Figure out what you want and feel completely empowered to go after it. You owe yourself the life you want. Settling for less than your liberty is not an option. Remember all the love of those in your sphere. We are here to help support you.
Don't deny the pain of it and feel like you have to excuse yourself for it. It is your divine right to grieve and to cry. It is also yours to be alive and be free. Tears release toxins and are often the storm we go through to gather strength.
I am so thankful for the sanity you have helped me hang on to. I would have felt rather hopeless here without your friendship.
You are like a big sister I gained from my year in the Caribbean. :)
Be human, be selfish, do you. You deserve it!
I know that right now you are in a pit of grief. You are at the heart of loss. But I promise on the other side of this loss is blessing you have been waiting on. You will find a happiness again. You will have a day when the sun is shining and the dogs are sleeping in a beam of light and you are drinking an iced coffee (or vodka cran) and will be thankful. Your heart will swell with gratitude for being alive and being free.
All that being said. Right now, BE SELFISH. Figure out what you want and feel completely empowered to go after it. You owe yourself the life you want. Settling for less than your liberty is not an option. Remember all the love of those in your sphere. We are here to help support you.
Don't deny the pain of it and feel like you have to excuse yourself for it. It is your divine right to grieve and to cry. It is also yours to be alive and be free. Tears release toxins and are often the storm we go through to gather strength.
I am so thankful for the sanity you have helped me hang on to. I would have felt rather hopeless here without your friendship.
You are like a big sister I gained from my year in the Caribbean. :)
Be human, be selfish, do you. You deserve it!
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